The sufferings of the Lord had to be like that because it was already prophesied from the scriptures that He must past through all those stages of emotional and physical pain in order to bring redemption, salvation, deliverance, healings to making.
Jesus had a vision with His vision for the whole world He would not have passed through what He suffered. If you have a mission, ministry, message without vision, it is nothing. The vision of Jesus that He received from His father in Heaven to have agreed to suffer the way He died enabled Him to achieve what He has achieved and is achieving today.
I am one of the people that Jesus saved and delivered because He suffered physical and emotional pain for me who died , resurrected and alive for evermore.