The only way to love someone who does not love you is by asking Jesus to pour His love into your heart for that person. Jesus must love through you and He wants to love through you. It`s up to you to let Him by asking Him to love through you. This happens through praying to Jesus and asking for His specific help. Ask Him to give you love for the person who doesn`t love you.

The only way to love those who hate you is by letting Jesus love them through you. This means you come to Jesus and ask Him to help you love those who hate you. It`s not natural for mankind to love his enemies, but Jesus loved even His enemies and He asks us to love ours. He can help us love those who hate us. He can give us the ability, through His Spirit, to love our enemies.

True love comes from Jesus who is love. If you want to love, you must surrender to Jesus and let Him love through you. He is love and His love is true love. The more you walk with Jesus - the more you know Jesus - the more easy it is to love others. It becomes second nature through His Spirit who loves through you. The key then is to fully follow Jesus, to get to know Him by reading His Word and fellowshipping with other Christians.

Lust is a problem common to all mankind. All people struggle with lust. But when Jesus is allowed to take complete control of your life - when the lust is surrendered to Him and you ask Him to help you with it - you`ll find new strength in dealing with lust.

Learning Bible Scriptures (Bible verses) often helps people deal with lust. Praying and asking God to help you during times of temptation - and before times of temptation arise - will help you deal with lust.

If Jesus lives in your heart, then you`re a child of God. God doesn`t want His children to struggle with lust. He wants them to be free from sin. He is willing to help you be free from lust if you turn to Him and ask Him. And if you fail, and fall into lust, then turn to Him again and ask Him to forgive you and begin again. God knows you are weak and wants to help you. He forgives the times you fail but don`t choose to fail because He knows the intents of your heart also.