What I mean is, when the Rapture occurs, will all believers be taken, or only those who are actively looking and aware of the end times in which we currently live?

I've sort of come to the conclusion that only those who are watching will be taken because of the exhortation to watch and pray that we may be counted worthy to escape the hour of tribulation that will come on the world and the parable of the servant who was supposed to watch his master's house, but fell asleep and was scourged for it. 

Immediately following the baptism of Jesus a voice is heard from Heaven expressing plesure in Jesus. Whose voice is this if not God? If Jesus literally is God at this moment, why does God APPEAR to be in Heaven and Jesus on earth? Would this not amount to deception should Jesus be God?

In Gethsemane Jesus expresses his desire to be relieved of his earthly misson for the redemption of man. As Jesus, is God capable of this weakness or is it as depicted, Jesus prays to his God and our God for srength to complete his given task.

Would Jesus pray to himself as God for strength he already posses by virtue of being God? Is it theactrics for our benfit?  If God is God and Jesus is not, these events and John 20:17 make sense. Maybe I am wrong, if so please explain.