everybody lives for eternity, Depending how you live you life on earth will depend where you spend eternity. If you live life here on earth with God believing in jesus your saviour and haveing a personal relationship with him then you will live with God for eternity in heaven, however if you live on earth without God following you own selfish ways, always looking after self, then you will live for eternity without God in hell. You have not needed him when on earth so why need him after death, you can do it your self